I bought the bike about 2 months ago, and the guy at the bike shop spent quite a bit of time making sure things were right, changed out the handlebar parts, fussed with the seat height and front to back-so I don't think fit is the problem with this bike.

Lots of the posts I have been reading talk about women with narrow hips wanting narrow saddles. I have the opposite problem. My hips are not narrow-I think my sit bones are just to wide for the seat. It is a theory at least.

A benefit of getting older-I am not much likely to be embarrassed by talking about the problem with the guys at the shop-and the shop I go to has older guys working during the week, instead of young kids who will blush so nicely.