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    Quote Originally Posted by snapdragen
    Unfortunately, there are bad people out there. Unless I know for sure the history, I am wary of the sex offender label. Here is why.

    A friend of mine had an aquaintance, a young (in his 20's) gay man. This man met another young man, the attraction was there, and they both went home to young man #2's house. They had sex, then young man #2 left the room, and came back in with his mother.

    They informed man #1 that #2 was under age - and if he did not pay them a certain amount of money, they'd call the police and have him charged. So he had a choice, be blackmailed by this boy and his mother (for who knows how long), or be branded as a sex offender for the rest of his life. His word against theirs. How would you choose?
    I would choose not to have casual sex... and cause the problem in the first place.

    Also - here's my problem with this debate - we are not discussing some guy who when he was young, burglaried houses to buy drugs. Wrong no question and I would expect him to pay the price but afterwards I would give him a chance if he straightened himself out. BUT we are talking about someone, who in my mind and in my very hmble opinion, has committed the ultimate crime and sin... I personally cannot excuse the behavior of someone who preys on children... be it cyclist, or neighbor, or parent, or priest. This is a sin that cannot be forgiven. But thankfully there are lots of folks out there more forgiving than I and since he has a name and a reputable (as a cyclist) he'll no doubt do well without my business.

    I don't shop at Walmart or buy Nike because of their business practices but will my behavior affect either business? No. But in my heart I'm chose to do the right thing.
    Last edited by bcipam; 07-17-2006 at 03:05 PM.
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