I agree that you have 2 choices: either take a turn at the front no matter how short or communicate that you are hanging on for dear life. Many years ago (pre-Clairol ) when I rode my 2nd Cinderella, a paceline of about 15 riders developed behind me. I pulled for miles and could not get anyone else to pull. No matter what I did to pull over or slow down, they just followed me. Then, right at the end, several sprinted past me into the finish. I felt like finding some wire cutters and attacking a few spokes.

I don't mind someone drafting if 1) tell me they are there and don't lap wheels and 2) either take a turn or tell me they can't maintain that pace if they pull.

Thanks for asking about the issue. It was great to see so many women at the Cinderella. It has tripled in size since I first rode it.