Maillotpois, I also rode horses, not bikes, up to about age 25. Had a VERY brief stint with a mountain bike on logging roads...thought that would help me get over losing a rural, horsey lifestyle with a man. It didn't take. Then, at 35, I met my husband, who was an avid cyclist. I drug out that old mountain bike for road use, and my first 10 mile ride was a red-letter day. A couple years ago got my road bike. My (ex)husband told me I couldn't keep up on the bike, and he is gone. But, the bike stayed, and what a lifesaver. Today I talked to 2 women about showing them the ropes about biking, teaching them how to change flats, etc. I am so thankful for biking, and how it helps me through the tough days. It's true that I couldn't keep up with my husband on the bike, and I aspire to being much stronger and faster. But, I am amazed and thankful for what I *can* do on the bike. And, I love seeing what happens when women start riding and finding that strength and joy.