Had to laugh. At work the other day i came so close to telling someone to kiss my fat a$$ too. But got to tell you, I'm so glad i didn't. The problem for me is that i have hard time letting it go when I'm treated unfairly like that. I know intellectually that everyone can be jerky and it's more about their own pain than me. I can keep from exploding back. But then I'm on edge all day and have trouble sleeping. After a day or two it's over, but I wish I could get past it faster. It only seems fair to hand back rudeness, but it really doesn't help and then i have guilt as well as anger to deal with. Perhaps by my next lifetime...