That is a hard one. I think it would be terribly difficult to be with an "inactive" person. My husband and I have always been active together whether it be, camping, hiking, fishing, running, biking.......He is a lot faster than me at everything but none-the-less we share many sports. Now, we enjoy doing races together...running races or triathlons or whatever. It is so nice to have somebody there for you give with a hug and a kiss at the start and finish!

My husband now also does adventure races. I have been the support crew quite a few times and love every minute of it. He would do the same for me.

Some of the women in my "active circle" that have inactive spouses do have more issues to deal with that prove to be obstacles and can take the fun out of a sport.

I consider myself very lucky!

Kelly