Dear fujigirl,

I am so sorry that man took advantage of your respect for him. Even though he's moving out of your building, it seems to me you said he'd still be in the neighborhood. When offended, I have often tried to pretend nothing happened. I imagine this man counts on you not causing him to lose face. He certainly didn't seem worried about his own loss of dignity. I second what everyone else has said about telling the police in front of his wife/son. Best wishes, L.