Hi Fujigirl,

That is EWWWW! Very yucky, and icky indeed.

I'm Chinese like you, and understand how we're brought up to respect our elders, and when that man betrayed your trust and respect for him, that's VERY BAD. I imagine the Korean and Chinese cultures are very similar in that respect, so he knew what he was doing, and that was taking advantage of you.

If you see him again, you tell him straight to keep away from you, and you tell him that if he doesn't you'll tell the doorman to call the police in front of his wife and son. He'll probably try to excuse and shrug off his behaviour and say that you're overreacting, but the potential loss of face, should stop him from pestering you.

Take care,

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