I did succeed in finding a Lazy Boy that fit me perfectly - both in a normal seated position and when reclining/fully reclined and with over 30 minutes of playing with it in all positions nothing complained. Considering the odds of a shoulder surgery in the next year or so a recliner seemed a good idea.

Sadly they didn't have one ready to go so it will take 6-8 weeks, hopefully sooner - but it felt awesome AND I was able to request they move the footrest lever to the left side - as the right arm is the problem. It isn't a rocker, those just did not feel as good. I did spend a couple hundred over my target - but it was that or get something I knew would hurt. I'm pretty pleased on my find and my mom would have greatly approved spending her money (it was from an estate settlement) on a recliner. She thought everyone needed to have one