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[emily_in_nc]

Emily, in my first 2 years, I switched from Special Ed, to Social Work, to Psych (briefly), and back to Special Ed. I couldn't handle the math (statistics) for psych, although, curiously, I took stats when I had my brief period as a doctoral student. By then, we actually did the calculations on a computer, which in 1980, was very ahead of its time.

That's interesting to me because -- in my first year of clinical psych graduate school (1983-84), we also did most of our stats work on computers using SAS. I had never liked math all that much, but I absolutely loved it. That was when I became obsessed with computers and decided to leave the program after that year and change to studying computer science. I ended up going to a different university (NCSU instead of UNC), since they had a post-baccalaureate program in computer programming that you could do in the evenings. So I took a job as a technical writer and did coursework for two years in the evenings, after which I was able to get my first programming job.

It's kinda fascinating how careers can evolve with exposure to different things.

I briefly thought of law school, before I decided on education, but I was afraid of majoring in a liberal arts major, and I knew I wouldn't get into law school with a degree in education.

Interestingly, a younger friend of ours recently got into law school with a degree in English, so you never know! But she hated law school and left the program after one semester. Now she is looking towards a PhD in English.

Plus, I got obsessed with having a baby. It was really an obsession. Very unlike me.

Boy, that is something else we have in common. I went through this very same thing. Total obsession. Although in our case, it ended very differently. We were never able to have a child despite multiple interventions (after trying for a year the natural way, of course!) I did finally get pregnant using IVF/ICSI but miscarried. I was devastated. By this time, we'd been trying for 7-8 years and were just burnt out, getting older all the time, and decided we couldn't continue on. We never wanted to go through the whole adoption roller coaster either. So this is why we were able to retire early -- the silver lining in this cloud. If I hadn't miscarried, I would have an 18-year old right now, which boggles my mind!