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[Pax]

HGTV has changed the game, everyone thinks they have to have granite countertops and an "open concept main floor". The whole thing irritates me, a generation or so ago parents raised a family in a small 2-3 bedroom house with one bathroom, now everyone in the family "needs" their own bathroom.

I guess I understand why so many people, when asked about retirement, reply "I can never retire, can't afford it".

[shootingstar]

HGTV has changed the game, everyone thinks they have to have granite countertops and an "open concept main floor". The whole thing irritates me, a generation or so ago parents raised a family in a small 2-3 bedroom house with one bathroom, now everyone in the family "needs" their own bathroom.

Yea I grew up a house with 1 bathroom for 8 people. In southern Ontario.
For a private conversation, I sometimes had to sit on the bathroom floor and close the door? What does one expect of a teenager? REally no more weirder than people on cellphone in bathroom.

And yes we had 1 phone in house.

I'm beginning to sound "old". But there are still enough people who live like this in North America.

I still have lots in common with long-time non-athletic friends. However still, they try to be active themselves. I think we have inspired each other over the years.... Professionally 2 closest friends who graduate from the same faculty, same university, same year 3 of us..have taken risk to have worked for several different(5-8) employers, have moved cities for jobs and hence, haven't built up comfy pension for early retirement, from working for only 1-2 employers.

[Crankin]

Basically, in my town, it is a sellers market, with houses ending up in bidding wars, over the asking price. It is a very desirable place to live, with good schools, 2 villages with shops and restaurants, and 2 commuter rail stops. And that's not counting the history and natural beauty. We have the granite counter tops, marble shower, tile floors, and hardwood. However, this is New England, and so our house and whole neighborhood, is not the norm, with the norm being an 8 room, 4 bedroom, 2.5 bath colonial home, with a large grass lawn. We have a 10 room, 4 bedroom, 3.5 bath, 4 story contemporary home, on a hill, with no grass. This is not a house for little kids, although for me, it would have been fine. Our kitchen/eating area is extremely modern, but no "open concept," in that our family room is on a different level. Other owners of this home used our kitchen eating area for a family room, as the dining room and kitchen are kind of "open," but they also had a ton of junk downstairs, where we have our family room. We have priced it very competitively, much lower than we wanted to, on the advice of our agent. People get excited when they see a home in this town, under a certain price point. The house is priced similar to the one across the street, that just sold.
The stager is part of the package with our agent. I like this woman, but I am missing our agent we used in the past, who died. Her husband took the photo shoot and she told us to take down the pictures (some) and move a couple of chairs. Of course, my last house was the most typical one you could find, with a beautiful custom screened porch that added a lot.
I think I've decided I will either ride my bike to the farm and get my fruits and veggies for the week, or drive to the farm and the grocery store to shop, while the woman is here. Might add in a coffee stop, too. DH thinks I am focusing too much on the "what kind of person becomes a stager?" thing. My answer to this question is very judgmental, so I will let it rest.

[Aromig]

I have a friend who just sold her house in Melrose. It sold within three days of being listed, they had five or six offers all of them above asking price. They ended up accepting the offer for $50K above their asking price. Yes, I think you definitely live in a sellers market. Good luck!

[Crankin]

AHHHHH! They are here and I am going to kill someone. I was out for the first hour and half, came home, put away my groceries, then vacuumed out my car, a job I loathe. I am now sitting out on the deck. I said hello to them, but I will not engage in conversation. DH is ready to kill me. I am not going out more, because I have nothing to do, and we are going on a ride later. Basically, they moved all of the living room furniture around in a different configuration, and took our coat tree out of the entry, moved our bench/cubby for our cycling stuff (it's from Crate and Barrell, for God's sake) in an awkward spot for me to get my stuff out and put on my shoes, and now they are taking all of our art work, ceramics, etc and moving it around or putting it away. They put a copper pot on top of the dining room table, and it looks really dumb. This feels really invasive and I did let them hear me say that people are watching too much HGTV.
I think what is bothering me is the invasiveness of the process, as well as the fact that people must be really stupid if they can't envision their own stuff in a house.
ETA:
A few hours have passed. DH was really mad with me, after I looked at all of the changes they made and went nuts. Some are laughable. They put a crystal vase on top of my dresser and a top hat that DS#1 had in his closet on his dresser. They moved prints around to places that look really dumb. And I can't find my magazines that were on the coffee table in the family room, because the table is now in the living room. They took what few books we have left (we've been purging for a few years) and put them in random, awkward places, not on bookshelves. No one would live like this. Any trace of us is gone from the house, except you might get that we are cyclists. I did get DH to agree to move the bench/cubby back to where it was, as the front door could not open all of the way to where they moved it. And, who puts a dining room chair in the entry way? But, I calmed down and we went out to a kitchen/bath place and started planning the remodeling of the condo. Now drinking wine and looking forward to a long ride on the south coast of MA/RI tomorrow.

[emily_in_nc]

Woah, Crankin, did not realize that you had to submit to them moving stuff around! I assumed they would just make suggestions. Eeek, this would drive me crazy as well. I feel for you. I hope it will all result in a quick sale, but I definitely empathize with your frustration. I would feel so violated, I think.

[Crankin]

They didn't just move stuff around, they made us take out several pieces of furniture. The only "real" piece of art work we have, i.e. not a print, is gone from the dining room and downstairs in our guest room. The coat tree is in there, too. The top of our hutch is gone, so a lot of my crystal, wine glasses, and china is packed up in a suitcase, and will be moved by us! I found the magazines andput them out on some built in shelves. You should see the way they need the bed to be made for the photo shoot, with the comforter rolled all the way down. I guess they want the light colored sheets to make everything look bigger. That's fine for the 3 bedrooms that don't get used, but the photo shoot isn't until next Thursday, so DH can do that in the AM, as thankfully, I will be working. I did some reading, and apparently the tolerance for this has gone in and out over the years, but it's now de riguer for homes above a certain price point. All I can say is that this must have been an easy job for them, as we have no clutter. I am not a sentimental person, especially about this house (when I think of "my house," I think of the last one and the one in Tempe, not this one, the first one we had in MA, or even my first home), but I am attached to my stuff. I like to look at pictures of my kids, and since I can't have them up at work, now it really feels weird. And speaking of them, both of them would croak if they saw how their rooms look. I wonder how they handle people with little ones in this situation.
Seriously, I know I am being unreasonable, but I haven't been this upset in a very long time. And yes, this house better sell quickly.