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    lauraelmore…..hoping you find a truly supportive, knowledgeable and caring instructor/class in the near future!!!!

    Quote Originally Posted by Muirenn View Post
    This is why, in my first response to this thread, that I recommended just saying they should be ashamed of their behavior, rather than politely saying may I speak with you? and then discussing. Just...announce that their behavior is unacceptable, then refuse to engage further.

    I'm not certain tears are a bad thing. That might make a few of them feel guilty.
    I guess I prefer to try for a positive learning moment first, makes me feel better about it no matter the outcome……and because of a grandmother who had mastered using guilt I don’t see much value in it.
    Last edited by rebeccaC; 03-24-2015 at 09:09 AM.
    ‘The negative feelings we all have can be addictive…just as the positive…it’s up to
    us to decide which ones we want to choose and feed”… Pema Chodron

 

 

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