Quote Originally Posted by shootingstar View Post
I'm perturbed why people here are judging me so hard ...

Please don't tear me down.

Did you even read what Pam or Blueberry said? We're perturbed that you are judging her so hard. When you choose this forum to tear your friend down, it hurts people. Even if your friend doesn't read what you write here, it hurts the people who do.