Well, I do wish 'em well. Historicly I've stayed friends with my long term relationships but I don't think so this time. I know that sounds like there's whole bunches of 'em but nooo. K & her partner live on an island in the San Juans now together for almost 30 years, we keep in touch, they seem fine. Hmmm, road trip! L married S in San Francisco on Valentines day, they have been together for almost 20 years. We try to meet up for a Giants game or 2 a year. But then we've always been able to talk, couldn't live together, couldn't be together, but we sure can communicate.
Not so with this last one. But at least...she got me back into cycling. Now, if she wants to sell me her bike we could talk. Because I think Chris could put me on a 50 cm and then...2 Mondonicos ;-) And she's sure not riding it.
I think what allabouteva says about marriage "It can be heaven or it can be hell." may apply to all long term relationships. And you're sure right about "The collective wisdom, support and genuine friendship" of this board.
But enough musing, off to walk the dog.



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