...right out of your hair!

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Hey Lise,

I've been reading your saga and just wanted to tell you what a great attitude you have. I know its probably not as straight forward as it is on paper but I think you are SO cool and I'm sure the perfect guy will show up when its time. I had my heart broken by someone I thought was my perfect soulmate and that time in my life was so miserable - hugely depressed, angry etc etc etc. However, looking back, I realized that getting over him was the biggest growth experience in my life. I also realized that I just didn't think I was worthy of him; my self confidence came through that healing period hugely improved.

Now we are good friends and he kicks himself for breaking my heart! In retrospect, if I had met him as I am now, we'd probably do great HOWEVER, in the interim, I really did meet my soulmate and I wouldn't want the darned heartbreaker anyway! HUMPH!!! (although, I do admit, its kinda fun knowing he knows he blew it! )

Just thought I'd share my story as an example of everything turning out okay in the end. Your happy ending is coming too!

Tracy

ps. Since you are doing your first century this summer, why don't you hoof it on over to Utah and do LRRH???? Come on Lise, its gonna be SO fun!!!

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Lise, I've been reading this thread and that's the thought that popped into my head. "If you build it they will come". What to build? Yourself! Work at being healthy (biking, of course) and happy. Do what makes you happy. Walk around knowing that you are a great person, and people are better for knowing you. When you do that, you will find others will start recognizing your self confidence, and your happiness. That is sexy. Then when you aren't even thinking about it, "they will come"!!! Be happy being you. That's the most important thing. Everything else is just icing on the cake!!!

Have a wonderful life!!

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Well Said, Ladyfish!

T~