Quote Originally Posted by bikerz
Hey Lise - sounds like a great ride! And the perfect attitude!

I'm suddenly single after my 14-year relationship ended - and totally dreading sidling into the dating scene as a 40-something (good grief - I was still in my 20's last time I was single!)

But a friend of mine told me way back then that I hadn't met my next partner because they were still busy getting ready for me. I found it a helpful way to think - it kind of took the pressure off, and who knows, maybe it was even true!

Meanwhile ride, ride, ride and give that really great guy time to get ready for you!
Sorry to hear about the end of what you'd put so much time and love into. I hope that next one is getting ready and looking for me...I learned, and will keep learning, a lot about myself in the past month. Hope it makes me more ready to be discerning and open to the next "right" one. Same for you, for us all. L.