Hmm, somehow my replies didn't post. Hope I'm not repeating myself. Anyway, yes I had some saddle issues, tried 3 of them before realizing the bike was just all wrong for me. I found a Trek on Craigslist and it made all the difference. No more squished lady bits! It had some adjustment room that my first bike didn't have. Now to just work on toughening up those sit bones. We've been riding mostly in the neighborhood, and found some really easy bike trails near our town. They were really good for taking the kids out on our first big ride. By big ride I mean like 5 miles! Hubby did a solo ride last night of 10 miles on a very hilly stretch of road and didn't have much trouble with it. He definitely has an advantage on me. I'm not worried about keeping up, I'm ok with going at my own pace. I am curious about breathable undergarments. Any particular sports bras ya'll would recommend?