Work lunch hr.: getting married

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I don't know why you consider it weird. DH and I have been together since 1994 and we're married in everyone's eyes except the State's.

Which is my sentiment exactly. We might at some point get married, but if living together for 20 years, having a kid for 15 of them and owning our now third home together hasn't proved we're a couple, a paper and some vows aren't going to change anything.
I should add - this is very common here, so not marrying wouldn't be considered weird unless you're extremely conservative.

I like your anniversary, Oak