Dear So and So

[laura*]

You really want to throw away our 9 year relationship

Oh, how horrible! Horrible! (need more !'s) !!!!!!!

you don't even have a reason why? ... you are still a young man who can start over and have a new family.

That's probably the reason. His biological clock may have just gone off - and he now wants biologically related offspring. I've heard multiple such stories passed along in my circle of friends. There are guys who've been happy as a clam in child free long term relationships - who suddenly broke it off, and six months later are married and the new wife is already expecting.