Going natural (ie grey) at 44.

[emily_in_nc]

I will admit that when I'm tired, or sick, or have gained a bit of weight, or am unfit or otherwise don't look my best, having grey hair makes it worse. I feel like I really look terrible. I would look down with dyed hair too, but at least I had pretty hair

But when I otherwise feel good about myself, the grey hair actually improves it. Because I feel it's very real and all me, and just a tiny bit rebellious.

Huge ditto and good point indeed!