I'm sorry to hear itself how things are happening in your relationship.

I'm probably close to finishing perimenopause. Meanwhile I have this stock of new feminine papers... I just haven't had a period for many months and just mild hot flash for a few times per month.

Some drastic things have happened in my life which of course have caused sadness for me. But for certain I can't attribute stresses to my (or my partner's) changing hormones.

We just live more mindfully and lower our expectations a notch on the cataclysmic front.