We have another stray (a male) that we've fed for some time, but I really want to get out of the business because it just attracts other cats--either because they themselves find their way to our house or people in the area see us as a place to dump their animals. I love cats and I can't bear to see them suffer, but it's hard on me emotionally to care for them indefinitely. That sounds selfish perhaps, but I have to remember that I can only do so much for them. Unfortunately, our local humane society had not proven itself to be a very helpful partner in the effort. So, once I start caring for them, they're essentially "mine."