Quote Originally Posted by smilingcat View Post
Does Fat Luna take old boy's food or treat? Biting on ear seems to be part of dominance thing. I've noticed this with my pride of cats. The boy who wants to be king keeps getting in trouble with my #2 Rag doll mix (8 yo). Rag doll mix is pretty laid back but after couple of hard bites on his ear by the boy who wants to be king, rag doll dishes out pretty hard. enough so that we have to intervene otherwise the boy cat (well he is all grown up at 5 years) will end up in ER. Boy cat doesn't even try with grampy, #1 main coon mix (13 or 14 yo). He wont tolerate it one bit.

Is there anything you can tell as to why your boy wants to do the dominant thing with Fat Luna? I think it has to do with food.
I don't think it has to do with food. They get separate dishes and no food is left out when I'm gone. He bites her just about anywhere he can grab (usually her butt). Other times they are cuddling and he's grooming her. I think it's how he "plays" but she'd rather he fall of a cliff and die than play with him. When I had a little kitten before Luna, Theo would bite the kitten and the two of them would take off tussling. She's just got no interest.