Also, I think she knows I am there to listen. Always have been in the last four years. What would amaze me would be if he said everyone at the restaurant has been lying (3 other owners, my DBF, former chef de cuisine, manager) and it's him vs. them and she doesn't question that at all. That should raise some alarm bells for her.

Perhaps I should stick to my gut reaction and keep an eye on her and let her know I'm there if she needs me. If she gets the impression that I'm worried about her she may start to suspect enough to ask tougher questions.