
Originally Posted by
Jones
I have read all the articles and have learned much, but it still all seems to come down to the same thing. There are no short cuts in losing weight and it will be a life long commitment. I just need to wrap my head around the fact that if I eat cookies I am choosing to be fat and my weight is nobodys fault but my own.
I really dislike using the concept of fault in conjunction with weight gain. Sure, you are the one who has to make decisions about how you want to live your life, but to say that your weight is your fault is a pretty heavy judgment when there are so many factors that went into how much you ended up weighing.
But yes, weight loss and maintaining that loss is a life long commitment where you may be fighting your own biology and if you are not willing to make that commitment day after day, year after year, it probably is better to be happy where you are at. And there is nothing wrong with being happy whatever you may weigh.
FWIW, IMHO.
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