Apostrophes or is it apostrophe's?

[7rider]

ohhhhh she disagrees with my spell checker and allows women's.... I think I'll keep using it despite being harassed by the little red dots.

I find my spell checker is frequently incorrect.
I click "ignore" a lot.

[Crankin]

Thank you.
I absolutely detest the increasing number of writers who think you need to use an apostrophe any time there is a "s" at the end of a word. It doesn't surprise me that there were such mistakes on a PTA poster. As a former writing teacher, I loved teaching my kids how using appositives, dependent, and independent clauses made them better writers. When done with the intent of teaching them to be able to express themselves better, they ate up the grammar teaching, just as Veronica describes.
It hurts my eyes to read some of the posts on TE. I know that using apostrophes incorrectly is not a sign of a personality deficiency, but... I guess I am old fashioned; I still proof my posts, even though this is not what I call "formal" writing.

[Irulan]

I find my spell checker is frequently incorrect.
I click "ignore" a lot.

Can't you add it to the spell checker?

[7rider]

Can't you add it to the spell checker?

Sometimes I do. Sometimes I don't.

[KnottedYet]

Misplaced apostrophes and misspellings can make my eye stumble as I'm reading, but I know what the writer is trying to say. Doesn't upset me.

I grew up in a family rolling in librarians and authors with an easy-going attitude toward that kind of stuff. If a friend or forum-buddy makes a grammar mistake but you know what they are trying to say, it doesn't matter.

But if a publisher or professional messes up... watch out!

[carlotta]

My English teacher as a sophomore in HS was quite into grammar.... we spent eons learning 6 or 8 rules for comma usage (and semicolons, etc.) and it was absolutely miserable. There were also large chunks of class devoted to writing intro/concluding paragraphs of essays (also miserable).

I wish I knew where to find her now (she retired a year or two after I graduated) so I could THANK HER, thousands and thousands of times.

I've never had to think about comma usage, and I am a much better writer for the year I spent in her class. I also wish I could find those rules so I could share them with a number of grad students and PhD's that I work with....

[indysteel]

Make that PhDs.

Not to make an example out of you, but it's another way I see apostrophes being misused. Acronyms are no different than any other word on how to make them plural.

[Irulan]

I struggle with comma use, especially in technical writing. DH has me read his reports before he sends them out. I have found a few good websites and bookmarked them for reference.

Its and it's is another confusing one.

I, for one, appreciate this discussion.

[carlotta]

I knew I'd make a mistake in that post... but I think most traditionalists would argue that it's really Ph.D.s

Or is it Ph.Ds.?

[indysteel]

I knew I'd make a mistake in that post... but I think most traditionalists would argue that it's really Ph.D.s

Or is it Ph.Ds.?

Beats me. In all fairness, there is some dispute as to whether certain acronyms, e.g., those with periods, and usages like "the 1980s" should take an apostrophe. I, personally, prefer them without because it seems more consistent with the other rules on apostrophe use. Whichever rule you follow, just be consistent in any given communication.