I cannot believe I'm thinking about getting my 6 yo an iPod Touch

[Trek420]

The Luddite in me screams noooooo. So does the daughter of a very successful reading therapist, sibling of two college profs, daughter in law of a librarian ...

But then you won't let the toy replace quality time with reading, desk skills, non-screen learning I'm sure.

Recently I was on a flight with parents and the most darling child in front of me. She was probably 2 or just about that. They were valiantly keeping her occupied when she turned around and saw my iPod.

Her eyes went big and she reached for it "The preciousssss ... mine!" 2, OMG.

I thought to myself "self?" I thought "there's plenty of time for iPods and such. How often does she have an artist near" and whipped out my sketch book.

With the parents permission I began with drawings already in the book "Here's a birdie. Do you know what that is? Yes, a tree. Where's the bird? Do you want to see a doggie? Where's the dog in this picture? Yes! That's the dog! What color is the dog? Yellow, yes. Do you have a favorite color? that was a little advanced for her so to the parents does she have a favorite? ok it's pink Would you like to see a pink dog? Yes, that's funny. A pink dog. Here it is .... the pink dog has the purple bird on his back. Yes, that's funny ..." and so on and so on alllllll the way to Seattle

As we landed the parents asked "Can we hire you to fly with us ALWAYS Hmmm, how often do you fly here?

But that's what you want, language, interaction, creativity, talking, play, reading ... all of it. There's no ap for me, or more important for quality interaction with YOU and other caring adults in her life.

[OakLeaf]

Part of having an active social life is being culturally literate. She can have all the friend time in the world, but if she doesn't know the songs her peers listen to, the YouTube videos they watch or the games they play, what will they have in common?

When I was in grade school all my classmates had transistor radios and I wasn't allowed to listen to popular music. Trust me, cultural isolation does nothing for a kid's social life. The particular medium in which the culture travels doesn't matter - that the kid has access to it, does.

Limiting access seems like a good idea, at least until she can prove she can be responsible with it. I'm pretty sure there are parental control settings that limit the volume, so that shouldn't be an issue.

It's also obviously a gift that can grow with her. Next year, learning that she doesn't always need the latest fastest processor and biggest storage capacity will be a good lesson, too.

[limewave]

I'm quite relieved we found a good present for her. She is so difficult to buy for in that she doesn't like toys, she doesn't play! She loves soccer, going for runs and bike rides, reading, listening to music. She has never played with barbies, playdo, etc. All she's wanted is soccer clothes, clipless pedals for her bike, music player and a digital camera.

Anywho . . . anyone upgrade recently to an iphone or ipad and want to sell me their gently used ipod touch?

[shootingstar]

clipless pedals? She must want to be like mama.

[limewave]

clipless pedals? She must want to be like mama.

She recently won a pair from the LBS--so now she has nicer clipless pedals than I do! And they are even pink! Sheesh. We also picked up shoes for her off the clearance table for $5.