Thanks for all the feedback everyone. I went out on Sunday and went to 3 more shops and did more test rides on various sizes/brands, but didn't find anything I was too interested in.
I went back to my LBS tonight for another test ride on teh 56 Lexa. The awesome sales guy who helped me with my FX last year was there tonight. Good news...he had a 58 Lexa (I guess the other sales guy didn't know it was there on Saturday), so i could compare the 56 and 58 Lexa. The 58 felt better and the reach was good. It was a 2011, on sale....what's a girl to do??? A few accessories later...she was mine!
Not sure how to post pics, but it is the 2011 Lexa SLX, 58, in the black/white/blue color, with a subtle flower patter in it. Love it, can't wait to get out and ride it!