
Originally Posted by
margo49
AWWWWW.....SHUCKS....
the thing is (as I told Knotted in a PM) the SO (a Real Man ) actually fruck out to the point of trembling and had to stop driving and take a 1/2 a clonex to get over the Panic Attack of thinking of more pain and cutting and healing after all the surgeries, chemo vein punctures and the Port (a-Cath) and radiation burns.
So I've sort of shelved the plan in the meantime as it was never important enough to cause that level of distress. Tho' he recovered to stammer "Of course it's your body"; presumably terrified i'd react with that good ol' feminist stand-by!
Cancer takes people different ways and you never know till you or someone you love comes out with them. Kind of a post-trauma reaction, I guess
Understood, lovey. You could come visit without getting a tattoo and we'd still throw the party, and he would come too.
"My predominant feeling is one of gratitude. I have loved and been loved;I have been given much and I have given something in return...Above all, I have been a sentient being, a thinking animal, on this beautiful planet, and that in itself has been an enormous privilege and an adventure." O. Sacks