Who cares how it's labeled, so long as it works for you?

I'm exactly the opposite. I need a WSD frame, provided it's properly WSD and not just a re-painted version of the unisex frame with a very slightly shorter top tube. (Cannondale and Giant, I'm looking in your direction!) I can handle a unisex frame if it has a sufficiently short top tube (Trek H3 Madone, maybe.)
Saddles...provided it's T-shaped with a cutout and wider than 140mm, who cares? I may eventually order that particular saddle if a Jett/Ruby doesn't work on my hypothetical Ruby.

I'm with you on the clothes...my waist:hip is sufficiently small that men's jerseys ride up or are way too big.