Quote Originally Posted by Muirenn View Post
It could be a joke, but if it were, the problem lies with the joker, not the one trying to help.

Moot point. OP is not coming back.

Perhaps preface any iffy question with the fact that you think the poster is just trying to get a response, but if not then...

Or don't bother. But it is certainly not possible to know for certain.
Well, I did email her and asked her to give us another chance.

I've been on so many boards where anyone new is treated with such suspicion. It just isn't right, IMHO.