Dear So and So

[bmccasland]

Dear irresponsible pet owner: thanks for dumping your cats on my property.

I don't know what to do, and it breaks my heart every day that I feed and water the cats you left to die. Shame on you.

Indy,
It's probably a good thing I don't live near you.. I think "sucker" is written across my forehead. Hope you can find a home for the kitties.

[indysteel]

I'd really like to take at least one of them in, but even before they showed up, we had settled on our two. I wish it were just up to me, but it's not. The sad truth is that Henry--my 12 year old--is already stressed out enough with our one year old cat, so I understand his reasoning.

But I can't stand that they're living outside. I have to find them a home before winter. They're sweet cats. After we get them fixed, we'll place an ad and try to vet any interest as best we can.

[Owlie]

Poor kitties.

[Bethany1]

Dear Sewing Machine Dealer,

Please be able to fix my sewing machine tomorrow. I broke a needle and jammed the bobbin case into the side of the machine while going over some rough seams.

I really hope I didn't do serious and expensive damage as it's my favorite machine.


Dear Bandit,

I know having a kitten around is exhausting. I do understand your frustration and know it's hard as you were here first. Buttons just really needed a home because she'd be stranded otherwise. You were adopted as a kitten because my friend found you outside in -20 degree weather over a year ago and gave you to me.


As more and more people are losing their homes, their animals are either left behind or dumped off somewhere as humane societies can't keep up. It's really sad. My parents just lost their home of 30 years and that's how Buttons came to be at my house. The sad part is the bank will sell that house for a fraction of what my parents paid for it.

[Owlie]

Dear self--
You probably should have learned to sew. Also, you need to find a way to put some money aside for a fitting so you don't end up with this knee pain every time you ride.

[Sky King]

Dear Left Leg,

Okay time for a heart to heart. You can handle this - knee just calm down so the calf muscles can work and not pull on the tendon. All together now!

[Owlie]

Dear car--
Stop leaking coolant. While I can technically live without AC, I'd prefer not to, given how hot it is. Also, we'd prefer to not have the additional expense of taking you to the dealership as well as the inconvenience of not having a car. (You're also interfering with my riding, and that makes Owlie very unhappy.)

[tulip]

Dear ML,
Your strength and spirit amaze me. It hurts to see you suffer. Even so, your grace and beauty shine brightly. You are loved. May peace and love envelop you.
Your loving friend,
Tulip

[indysteel]

Indy,
It's probably a good thing I don't live near you.. I think "sucker" is written across my forehead. Hope you can find a home for the kitties.

We managed to trap the kitten and the cat that I assumed was female (and perhaps the kitten's mother) this morning and took them to the vet. The kitten is male; the cat female and in heat. They've been spayed/neutered. They're likely going to keep the female for a few days until she's no longer in heat because, as they put it, males would "tear her up" right now. So, that leaves two other males to fix. I was primarly concerned about fixing the female, so I feel better about that.

DH and I are debated taking in the kitten. We're both really torn. We love our cat/human household as it is, but by the same token, I think we'd love to give the kitten a home. In the very least, it might be best to bring him into the household with the hope of getting him rehomed....but we could only do that if we were prepared to be his forever home.

Having gone through this just last year, it's not necessarily an easy process to introduce a new cat to a household. When we introducted Izzy last year, for reasons that remain unexplained, Henry got incredibly sick. He didn't test positive for any known cat virus, so we were left to wonder if the stress of a new animal was to blame. He spent a week at the vet with a persistent high fever. I had just lost Sophie Kitty a month earlier, and the combined trauma worked a number on me. I'm still not over all of it.

I'm not a religious person, but I tell ya; I've been praying for guidance about this.

[Biciclista]

Dear Indysteel

Thanks so much for making a difference. You prevented a litter of uncared for kittens to be born and many more. You will probably find that the kitten is the easiest one to find a home for. Good luck with those kitties and thanks again.

Another krazy cat lady

[indysteel]

Dear Indysteel

Thanks so much for making a difference. You prevented a litter of uncared for kittens to be born and many more. You will probably find that the kitten is the easiest one to find a home for. Good luck with those kitties and thanks again.

Another krazy cat lady

Thank you for that.

In the process of figuring out how to handle this situation, I hooked up with a local organization that offers low cost spay/neuter services. I can add them to my list of organization to give to and volunteer for. I was planning to use their services to help with my strays, but they had to cancel today's "community day" because of the heat. They apparently transport the animals to a vet/feral expert about an hour away, so the weather sometimes interferes. I'm hoping to get my two remaining males into them next week.
If they'll take the bait.

Thankfully, I had also talked to my vet about the situation. They're awesome btw; I couldn't love them more. They told me to bring them in as soon as I got them trapped. With only two traps, I knew I had to do it in stages, with the hope that I'd catch the kitten and female first. I am so relieved that they're the ones that showed up first thing this morning! Whew!

The kitten is so sweet. He looks like a bat. We named him Kalamata because he's blackish/brown, but shortened it to Kallie. Now that we know he's a boy though, Kallie seem a bit odd I guess!

[Veronica]

You could just call him Kal.

I ended up taking our last feral catch to our regular vet. The kitten had broken his leg about two weeks before I caught him and had a nasty looking infection. The spay/neuter vet didn't want to deal with that.

The leg had already started to heal so it didn't get set properly. But they took care of the infection. Curly Kitten - he lives in our backyard still with his dad, Curly - is doing great. You can barely see his limp now.

I have 5 ferals that I feed. All have been neutered and now they really don't act like ferals.

Anyway... I hope it works out and whatever you decide to do with them is going to better than if you did nothing.

Veronica

[indysteel]

You could just call him Kal.

I ended up taking our last feral catch to our regular vet. The kitten had broken his leg about two weeks before I caught him and had a nasty looking infection. The spay/neuter vet didn't want to deal with that.

The leg had already started to heal so it didn't get set properly. But they took care of the infection. Curly Kitten - he lives in our backyard still with his dad, Curly - is doing great. You can barely see his limp now.

I have 5 ferals that I feed. All have been neutered and now they really don't act like ferals.

Anyway... I hope it works out and whatever you decide to do with them is going to better than if you did nothing.

Veronica

DH suggested Ollie (as in Kalamata Olive).

I'm trying to get my head around the idea feral/outside cats, especially with our winters. Currently, the cats mostly hang out under the deck of the house next door to us that is unoccupied at the moment. We could build them a shelter, too. They otherwise have quite the expanse of land to safely roam because our property borders the city park.

How did you come to have ferals btw and have you ever tried to find homes for them?

ETA: If I may also ask, what routine care do you provide for them? Yearly vet visits and the full round of periodic vaccines? Do you treat them for fleas and worms?

[Biciclista]

All of my present cats were born feral (3 of them) I joined a group like you are describing and for a few years I fostered feral kittens and socialized them.
If you decide to take these cats on permanently as ferals, you can make them a shelter for the winter time. They will stick together and stay warm. Most feral cat caretakers I know do not deflea their cats, but if one is reallly sick, they try to retrap and treat them. (or even put medicine in food which doesn't make sense when you're feeding more than one)
I started with ferals when I looked out my back window one day and saw kittens in my back yard. It took a month to actually trap them, but I did trap all of them and their mother; spayed the mother and let her free, and socialized all the by then 4 month old kittens. One of them was Enza - and she is one of the greatest cats I've ever had.

[Veronica]

I don't know where Mama Cat came from, but I started feeding her right after we lost our Greta Dog in 2003. She stayed pretty feral, had a litter in 2004 that I barely saw. But in 2005 decided to have her babies in our backyard. That's when we decided we needed to get a trap and start the neutering. We've probably neutered twenty cats over the years - mostly boys and they for the most part haven't stayed around after.

Our population has leveled out in the last few years to five - 3 girls, two boys. Two of the girls are from Mama Cat's last litter. I don't know where the third girl came from. She's the only one I can't pick up now.

We decided all we were going to do was neuter, release and feed and water, especially since for a while they kept disappearing. Curly Kitten was an exception. Although I think that if something happened to any of my friendly four now, I'd probably take them in if I could get them into a carrier.

We never thought about looking for homes because for the girls it took years to get them to let me handle them. We lost Mama back in December and she was finally letting me touch her. Sometimes I wish we had tried to place the Curlys - but I'd have missed out on their antics in my backyard. Curly in particular is quite friendly - he loves his belly rubs!

Our two indoor babies aren't allowed to socialize with the outdoor ones. Cassie is content with that. Tucker would like to go out and play and sometimes escapes. Because of the potential contact with the ferals, our indoor cats get vaccinated as if they went outside.

We've been lucky in that we haven't had a flea issue with Cassie and Tucker. Tucker had worms once after a lengthy escape and play session with Curly Kitten. I know that means he ingested a flea - but otherwise we haven't seen any.

We're in CA and it almost never freezes so I don't have winter issues. Our backyard is fenced so that keeps them relatively safe from the coyotes. We're on a dead end street with little traffic and back onto open space. I do end up also feeding skunks, raccoons and the occasional opossum. Part of me would like to be the crazy cat lady who takes them ALL in... but it's not practical. There are days when Cassie and Tucker don't get as much play time as they'd like. So I do what I can.

Veronica