Dear So and So

[limewave]

Limewave, you have alot on your plate. I will just come out and say it: Please, please please get some couples counseling. Do it for your kids if not for you. Whatever it takes to get you there. You don't deserve this crap, and your kids deserve to have a better relationship model.

While I'm on a roll here, please also start putting money away for yourself.

There, I'm done. No more advice.

Okay, I lied. I'm not done. Marriage is a team sport. You are having to be the referee.

Okay, now I'm done. For real.

Done. Done. And done. We're on an upswing. He's actually been handling the situation for awhile which is why I have some money to buy my new mountain bike. Selling my business just eliminates the safety net. I think it will be good for all of us.