
Originally Posted by
andiewest
I had a little lesson in humility last night. I had tried our local bike shop's serious beginner ride last week. It was a mixed group of men and women and I had heard that they go pretty fast. One of my friends had tried it, and she said that I would have no problem keeping up. Anyway, it ended up being super fast (for me) and we went 50 km (30 miles) at an avg speed of 30 kmh (18 mph). This is fast for me, as I am relatively new to cycling and usually average 14-15 mph on my training rides. I did manage to hold a wheel the whole time and was very proud of myself. I came home and told dh and he decided that he would come out with us this week.
Fast forward to this week, and as soon as the ride started I was way behind. Dh had to pull me back up to the group. I eventually caught up and got a second wind bit I was definitely feeling humbled. The average speed and distance ended up being about the same as the previous week, but I definitely felt like the slow newcomer. For some reason I have more grit and determination when my husband is not around. I'm not sure what that is about. I think I feel the pressure of his expectations and that throws me off. Anyway, I am enjoying riding in a group, as I usually just ride with one or two others.
Great job! As for your performance the second week, having done a lot of group training rides myself, I can say that some rides are just going to be better than others. While it could have been your husband's presence, it also could have been what you ate and drank that day or how fatigued you may have been. I'm glad you're enjoying it though. It's a great way to get a lot faster/stronger on the bike.
Live with intention. Walk to the edge. Listen hard. Practice wellness. Play with abandon. Laugh. Choose with no regret. Continue to learn. Appreciate your friends. Do what you love. Live as if this is all there is.
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