The idea of finding a younger, male cyclist (of any type) who follows the rules is a good one. See if the nearest cycling club has a juniors division.
My son was a Cat 4 racer at age 15 and he would have loved to have been a role model for someone. He was, for one or two younger kids. Being a good cyclist definitely made him a good driver. DH took him to the RMV, he got his permit, and he drove home from there on the same winding, hilly back roads he rode on.
I'd be furious, too.