I was like Eden. I was very self-conscious when I first started riding and wore long tops over my shorts. As time went on and I started going to more charity rides and cycling events, I noticed that everyone had the same attire and no one cared except for me. I eventually gave up the baggy tops and started wearing bike jerseys and now I even wear a tri suit in public and don't give a rip. I am still carrying extra weight that I need to lose but I figure the only people who would probably judge me are people that aren't active---you know, that overweight, impatient person sipping on their soda and smoking a cigarette that honks at you and yells an obscenity as they pass you in their car?

It's great that you are riding. You've been given some great alternatives to spandex but I think eventually you will feel more confident wearing bike shorts.