Why a women's forum?

[Biciclista]

I'm going to be 60 this year, that IS old. But I'm going to fight it every single step of the way.

And TE is one of the ways.

[Veronica]

I'm going to be 60 this year, ....

Really?

If I think about the age of your kids, it makes sense. But with the rides you do and your zest for life, I'd have guessed early 50s!

60 as a number sounds old, but the reality doesn't have to be. I think I like "experienced" better than old.

Veronica

[OakLeaf]

I'm going to be 60 this year, that IS old.

Naw. When I was 15, 60 was old. Now that I'm 51, 60 is young.


I do enjoy the range of ages we have here.

[Bike Writer]

I'm going to be 60 this year, that IS old. But I'm going to fight it every single step of the way.

And TE is one of the ways.

60 can't be old - heck I'm almost there myself! I'll go out on a limb and say that for the women of this forum 60 is the new 40. There are examples all around here of women doing things in their 50's and 60's that people stopped engaging in during their 40's in years past. Our stories are so inspirational to one another and a big contributing factor for what keeps people around here.

[indigoiis]

There are differences. We have different bodies, even if some of us are boyish in build. We experience things guys don't (like monthlies, and menapause) and we have some concerns that frankly only a small percentage of guys are concerned with.

[Biciclista]

60 can't be old - heck I'm almost there myself! I'll go out on a limb and say that for the women of this forum 60 is the new 40. There are examples all around here of women doing things in their 50's and 60's that people stopped engaging in during their 40's in years past. Our stories are so inspirational to one another and a big contributing factor for what keeps people around here.

whether you think 60 is old or not is not the point. Go to Walmart where you will see just how old 60 can be.
My point is we aren't laying down and giving up. At TE, this is where you can find self-empowered women who are trying to NOT be old at 60, 50, 40...
and to be healthy at all the other ages..
women that do brevets! what a tiny little group you are!

[snapdragen]

I get what you're saying Mimi, there is 60 years young, and 60 years old. You are in the young category.

I'll never forget the look on my friend Aurora's face when she found out I was the same age as her mom. "But....my mom is old!"

[indysteel]

I get what you're saying Mimi, there is 60 years young, and 60 years old. You are in the young category.

I'll never forget the look on my friend Aurora's face when she found out I was the same age as her mom. "But....my mom is old!"

And that's really the point I was getting at. If "young" women simply used what they saw in the general population to define what being 50/60/70 looks like....well, we'd be pretty discouraged by what was in store for us. To come here, however, and see so many shining examples of women who are defying the perception that any given age is "old" is incredibly illuminating and empowering.

Of course, that same logic applies at younger ages to. When I joined TE at age 36, I was pretty inspired by people my own age who were kicking some serious butt athletically. I'm still pretty inspired (and humbled) by these same women.

[PamNY]

I find the TE attitude about age -- or lack of attitude -- very helpful. Age comes up occasionally, but no one would even think of using age to define what I can or should do.

I agree with most of the TE positives that have been listed in this thread. The one that was completely unexpected for me is how inspiring I find other women's stories. Many of you (probably most) are going farther and faster than I ever will, but that doesn't matter at all.

Whether it's a triathlon, a mountain biking trail, or transporting a child in a trailer, we are all learning, growing and facing new challenges. I treasure this positive influence in my life.

[lph]

I find the TE attitude about age -- or lack of attitude -- very helpful. Age comes up occasionally, but no one would even think of using age to define what I can or should do.

Actually, more often than not it's the other way round. I see posts joyfully proclaiming "I'm so and so old, and I'm the oldest in my training group/triathlon club/beginners class. How cool is that!". People here revel in finding out how much they can do at whatever age, how they're never too old to try something new, and so many others cheer them on. That spirit is so dominant here that one of the only things that might get you somewhat flamed is saying that you've given up trying to do something. But I think it's just enthusiasm speaking, we so want everyone to feel that sense of achievement.

[jobob]

Many of you (probably most) are going farther and faster than I ever will ...

Heh. Among the many things I've learned from the TE community is do not underestimate yourself, and never say never.




Great thread, ladies.

[Norse]

I originally came here when I was searching for some female-specific advice on bike saddles. I have stayed for many of the reasons already articulated by others. Where else can I come and talk about biking in a non-flaming forum, discuss pets, gardening, food, ... and Diva cups!

[Crankin]

Maillotpois, I always felt "out of it" compared to other mothers. And yet, almost all of the other women i worked with had kids, but they had no other life between their kids and teaching and other family commitments. Heck, if we hadn't found our "cycling" friends, around the time both of our kids had flown the coop, I am not sure we would be able to stand being around our "regular" friends. It's interesting that this couple has no kids; they are younger than us, but we are well matched in terms of what we do athletically. Our other friends "humor" us when talk about our rides, but they are OK with it. Still, it seemed more acceptable when I was running to the gym and it was DH and DS who were riding.
Mimi, that word is awesome. Seriously, one of my non-riding close friends has the same attitude as me regarding the kid thing, but she is overweight and complains about it constantly. The other friend talks about what she "used" to do. I can barely stand it.
The best advice I received from my mom, before she died was to make sure that DH and I developed an interest we could do together. Both of my kids were in middle school at the time and could be left alone finally; she knew we needed more than going out to dinner and the movies.

[sundial]

Go to Walmart where you will see just how old 60 can be.

Oh I know what you mean! My area is NOT cycling friendly by any means and by that I mean that there are no lockers to store bikes at work, no bike lanes, roads with big shoulders, etc. There are limited rec areas at the park and very few walking trails so it's no surprise that obesity is on the rise.

[Bike Writer]

whether you think 60 is old or not is not the point. Go to Walmart where you will see just how old 60 can be.
My point is we aren't laying down and giving up. At TE, this is where you can find self-empowered women who are trying to NOT be old at 60, 50, 40...
and to be healthy at all the other ages..
women that do brevets! what a tiny little group you are!

Yes. Not giving up or giving out. I believe what inspires people who come here is to see living proof that what they are thinking about or considering doing is indeed possible. Someone in their 40's or 50's and more, or any age for that matter, that is wondering to themselves "is it possible, can I still do this, dare I?" comes to the forum and sees examples of every day women doing the very thing (and much more!) that they are wondering if they are up to doing. This certainly even applies to younger moms who are considering themselves "over the hill" because they feel bogged down with child care and the responsabilities of adulthood, taking care of the family and managing a household and all the chores that come with it. They don't see any "out" or light at the end of the tunnel, then they come here and read about other moms who do it and are living the life they want to aspire to.

This community is so much more than an information exchange. It's an empowerment exchange. (sorry that is such an overused and tired word but I can't think of another at this moment, sheesh and I call myself bike writer).