Jess, I get it. It's all about being accepted for who and where you are at the moment and supported in getting to where you want to be.

I missed Bloom's "hideous, ugly tirade" during the midst of the divorce, too, but I can't imagine that doing anything to endear him to the group here.

I share stuff with my husband that I read on TE. Mostly the jokes. I don't remember who posted about Jens just finishing the first lap around Tahoe -- "Shut up, snow!" -- but DH thought that was hilarious. He shared it with all of his cycling buddies, too.

But it would never occur to him to hang out here.

Roxy