I don't really want to get into this discussion, but I don't remember anyone (Silver or Mr. B) making a nasty comment about the divorce, during the divorce. In fact, I didn't know they were getting a divorce, until many months , or even a year later, when Mr. B affirmed that it had happened, when, I think, someone asked. I really thought it was a joke when he said this and I remember posting this. I wouldn't have thought it was a joke if I had seen "comments."
I guess I must be too welcoming. While it does feel a little uncomfortable to have former spouses who are not happy with each other on the forum, I really don't want to exclude either of them. And, I am surprised at the quickness to judgment on this matter. It doesn't matter who was "at fault" for the split or who joined here, first. They both have been valuable members of the community and they both should be here. There are some on the forum that I know I have very different values from; it doesn't mean they should be excluded because they don't fit my mold .