Marni, you are smack dab in the Bible Belt so it's not surprising that faith and religion are being interjected into your encounters with support groups. I haven't experienced what you are going through but my mother is a bc survivor and had a lumpectomy followed by radiation therapy. I think what helped her most was talking with the oncology nurses and fellow patients who knew exactly what she was going through.

Having a forum of like minded people is a big boost for the challenging days. Cancer robs peace of mind and wrecks havoc on the psyche and having contact with fellow survivors is a real boost for when you are experiencing bad days.

Here is one such forum:

http://www.healthboards.com/boards/f...splay.php?f=23

Marni, I wish you a steady recovery and lots of support in the coming days.