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  1. #1
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    Hi, Brandi! Long time no see (chat?!!).

    The way I interpreted your original post is that your DH is in a bit of a cranky nitpicking mood and the current thing he's found to nitpick about is FB. I took it as FB not being the real issue, but him being stressed and needing to let off some steam and it's being directed at you, because....well, you're there. Did I read it correctly?

    If so, I totally get where you're coming from. Both DH and I do that to each other sometimes. We try not, but it does happen from time to time. I feel like an a$$ when I do it to him. (Ok, so maybe I'm not perfect, but don't tell him I said that.) I can't even imagine spending 24/7 with him, either. I adore him, but I don't think he and I could ever work together.

    From all the other things you've posted about him he sounds like a great guy, so I'm sure it will pass soon (if it hasn't happened already). Hang in there.

    ~Soo
    Everything in moderation, including moderation.

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    Quote Originally Posted by sgtiger View Post
    Hi, Brandi! Long time no see (chat?!!).

    The way I interpreted your original post is that your DH is in a bit of a cranky nitpicking mood and the current thing he's found to nitpick about is FB. I took it as FB not being the real issue, but him being stressed and needing to let off some steam and it's being directed at you, because....well, you're there. Did I read it correctly?

    If so, I totally get where you're coming from. Both DH and I do that to each other sometimes. We try not, but it does happen from time to time. I feel like an a$$ when I do it to him. (Ok, so maybe I'm not perfect, but don't tell him I said that.) I can't even imagine spending 24/7 with him, either. I adore him, but I don't think he and I could ever work together.

    From all the other things you've posted about him he sounds like a great guy, so I'm sure it will pass soon (if it hasn't happened already). Hang in there.

    ~Soo
    EXACTLY IT! He is a different person today. I think possibly it was because we had a real ball buster of a 1 day job coming up the next day. Like I said I don't post anything personal about us on fb except general stuff. And I keep it very level as far as when we are away and home so it doesn't seem like anyhting is different. I don't talk about if we are away or not. Now on TE site here it is different. I see wise people here who are not a threat to me. I feel I can talk about almost anything. I have realized this week how much I have missed all of you which is why I plan to be here more often. Besides I am less likely to get in trouble here then on fb! thanks for listening and for all the advice!
    Blessed are the flexible, for they shall not be bent out of shape.
    > Remember to appreciate all the different people in your life!

 

 

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