Quote Originally Posted by Irulan View Post
That was kind of what I was thinking - this sounds like a bigger problem than can be solved thorough an internet post. You are posting personal problems in a public forum... maybe no wonder he's uncomfortable with your facebook use! There could be trust issues here, intimacy and I don't mean sex issues, certainly something better addressed through marriage counseling than a public board. Just my two cents.
There is a difference between forums such as this and facebook. On forums most people do not use their real names and it is difficult to know who they are, if not impossible. So, online forums can be a good place to air personal issues. In contrast, most people are themselves on Facebook, with many if not most friends also "real life" friends. I often share issues on online forums I would never share on Facebook because no one has a clue who I am. I keep details like where I live and what I do private so people do not figure out who I am. On facebook I have to be very circumspect.

I personally wouldn't read a lot into the OP husband's concern. He might have heard about how Facebook has little privacy and just be worried about that.