Quote Originally Posted by PamNY View Post
Sorry, I misunderstood.

In general, I've found some people think you are being "mean" to the dog if you expect him to behave. Or they find the misbehavior to be funny. Everyone wants to be an indulgent grandparent.

One person I'm forced to put up with right now actually insists on feeding the dog treats when guests are here. She thinks it is funny and laughs at me when leave the room. Not a question of brains -- she has a PhD.

If I'm jumped on, I try saying "Sit." A lot of dogs know sit. Since I'm in a city with mostly leashed dogs, I have the option of backing away.

I can also be quite firm with the owner when needed.
lol now this is morphing into another thread. Don't get me going on retracto-leashes and dogs taking their owners for a walk....