Quote Originally Posted by CycleTherapy View Post
ummm, I don't mean to sound in any way offense, really I don't. Sometimes we can be near-sighted in our vision because maybe we need a tweak of our lenses or perception. Have you considered your post, as related to the very issue you are experiencing and asking advice for ? Could your post here be the same type of thing that makes your husband anxious and even fearful, which then comes out as anger ? Maybe the action of posting your issue here, is the kind of behavior that has your husband agitated ? Maybe it scares him that (in his belief) you might use FB as the alternative to communicating and satisfying a need for relationship... that he really wants you to find in HIM and through the commitment of your partnership.

Please read my thoughts merely as "food" for consideration; in no way were they meant as judgement.
That was kind of what I was thinking - this sounds like a bigger problem than can be solved thorough an internet post. You are posting personal problems in a public forum... maybe no wonder he's uncomfortable with your facebook use! There could be trust issues here, intimacy and I don't mean sex issues, certainly something better addressed through marriage counseling than a public board. Just my two cents.