I agree that numbers should talk. That's why I am changing. When I told her "I rode my bike 3,227 miles in 2010, I got a blank stare and she continued on to ask me if my marriage was OK.

Tulip, I go to the doctor when I have to. I used to be there, lots. Usually now, it's twice a year for sinus infections/allergy related stuff. I go for my annual gyno exam, and I see an endocrinologist for my osteoporosis. This year I decided to see my PCP for an overall check up, get all of the blood work, etc. That's when I was asked about the stair climbing/chest pain.