oh geez, Annie and snap, I'm so sorry for your loss. Needless to say I know exactly how you feel. My dad died suddenly as well, we were just all shell-shocked. I, too, missed his death by about 20 minutes so I'm sure there are some feelings surrounding that, too.

Big huge hugs to both of you! take care, and PM me if you like. I'm sure we can all use a mutual shoulder to cry on!