Indy... I used to tell my sister where I thought she went wrong but decided, as you mentioned, its not my business to judge her and what she has done with her life so some time ago I stopped. I am perfectly happy minding my own business but then she tries and bring me in on the drama. I still don't know why she had to call me. I was already in touch with my mother and other sister. I know it is was to get me to feel sorry for her... I feel for my brother; I feel for my mother, I feel for my dad and I am sorry that my sister doesn't see how wonderful her own life is or can be. But I can't give in to her "victim" thing... life is just too short.

Thanks, for indulging me however. It's good to get another perspective... I tend to bottle my emotions up good and tight and I know I lack empathy...