(((((Mel)))))

I think the feeling is very natural, but I also agree with Tulip that it would help you to be talking with a professional.

Does your husband know how much the wreck is affecting you emotionally, apart from wanting to move?

I'm glad your daughter is feeling better physically (and I hope you're talking with each other about the emotional aftereffects - I expect she's having some too, and it would help her to know she's not alone).

Take good care.