Have a safe trip there and back. Hopefully, the rest of the issues will work themselves out. Try to be kind but firm with your mom with respect to where you stay. Don't let her bait you. That said, perhaps you could offer to spend one night with your parents after all the other houseguests are gone.
Live with intention. Walk to the edge. Listen hard. Practice wellness. Play with abandon. Laugh. Choose with no regret. Continue to learn. Appreciate your friends. Do what you love. Live as if this is all there is.
--Mary Anne Radmacher