JuneHawk,
I am only a couple of inches shorter, but I do have a WSD trek (47 cm). 40!!! That's sad. I suggest finding a shop that does pro-fits. Even if you have to drive a bit, it is totally worth it.
I have had both and find that my extremely tiny hands and short arms are better accommodated by a WSD frame. I do have long legs and no torso,though, so IDK. If you are built oppositely (longer in the torso), it probably won't fit.
My Dad who is 5'4 and a half can't even do the standover/stem height on my bike. He has a Trek commuter that should technically be about the same size, but totally different geometry. So it makes a huge difference. My sister who is built like my dad cannot take a WSD like mine either, so it just depends.
If I knew the men's bike was a better idea, I would get them to comp me a different seat to sweeten the deal. It makes a HUGE difference if you are riding a bit. I have a unisex seat on my commuter, but I only ride 5 mi to/from.
***proud Hoosier, statistics nerd, and mom to a headstrong toddler***
****one car family and loving it!****
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